How to Solve Social Anxiety
Physically & Emotionally
Social anxiety disorder is just one of the
various forms of anxiety
disorders. Anxiety
specialists call it social phobia. The hindering and
exaggerated fear of humiliation, embarrassment, and scrutiny in
daily social activities, which results to evasion of
potentially enjoyable and worthwhile activities, technically
defines this disorder.
Students, professionals, and even married individuals are
often the common profiles of patients suffering from social
phobia.
Most people exhibit a form of shyness or nervousness in
certain situations. Meeting different people in a big occasion,
attending to public gatherings or social activities are often
the triggering factors of shyness or social phobia.
However, there is a big difference between shyness and
social anxiety disorder. In fact, social phobia is much worse
than shyness.
The Social Phobia - Social Anxiety Association in the United
States have identified ten potential triggering factors of
social phobia.
SP-SAA found out that people with social phobia are usually
afraid of meeting or introducing strangers, teasing, becoming
the focal point or attention of a gathering, scrutiny or
criticism from people, speaking to a crowd, meeting people with
high ranks, attending social activities or parties,
embarrassment, eye contacts, making phone calls, talking, and
eating in public.
Do these behaviors ring a bell to you? Well, there is
nothing to be completely shy about? In fact, you should not be
embarrassed about your social phobia. Learn to accept your
fears...
It is okay to be open about how you feel since this is the
first step in identifying and treating your disorder.
Do you often say that you are uncomfortable, do you act
awkwardly, do you sometimes look like your incompetent or
stupid, do you feel strange and weird about yourself, do you
feel embarrassment all the time, or do you see yourself as a
boring person in the crowd?
Obviously, these are the signs of social anxiety
disorder. But you still need to identify which
symptoms you are displaying to determine how serious your
social anxiety has already become.
Generally, there are two classifications of symptoms: the
emotional symptoms and physical symptoms.
The most difficult part about having social anxiety is that
you start to feel bad about yourself. Examine if you are
showing emotional symptom of this disorder such as fear of
people watching you, or fear of embarrassment.
Check also if you have these physical symptoms: trembling,
dry mouth or throat, excessive sweating, blushing, palpitation,
muscle tension, nausea, diarrhea, stomach upset, and talking
difficulty.
As an initial approach to managing social anxiety, there are
helpful steps you can take to overcome social phobia. It helps
if you focus on the positive and likable qualities about
yourself.
Maintain eye contact when speaking with someone and you
initiate the conversation. Remember that you cannot blame the
people around you as the main cause of your social anxiety.
Strip off your social nervousness; wear a positive outlook
in your life.
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